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- What is my nationaly:
- My sex:
- What is my Zodiac sign:
- What I like to drink:
- My favourite drink champagne
- I like:
- I like roller-skating
Sugar baby and daddy relationships have been a taboo topic for as long as the concept has been around. We sat down with a sugar baby who has just started out in the industry to see what her experience was like. Read the interview below to see what she has to say about her sugar baby job so far. Tell me a bit about yourself and your background.
It now describes a very specific kind of relationship in which a young "sugar baby" receives funding from an older sugar daddy, or in rarer cases a sugar mummy.
But the arrangement isn't always as straightforward as you'd imagine - and there's an entire spectrum of arrangements, all couched in surprisingly opaque language. While women are encouraged to be sugar "mamas" on a few platforms, the general assumption is that it's men who'll be coughing up cash. However, what the older sugar parent receives in exchange for their "generosity" is a very murky matter indeed.
For example, on the Sugarmodels app, sugar daddies are matched with sugar babies whom they can "pamper". On Richmeetsbeautiful. Describing the nature of their services to The Independenta spokesperson explained that these relationships are "mutually beneficial".
At a first glance, the process is not too dissimilar from that of a typical dating site, with run-of-the-mill info like height, eye colour, occupation etc. Whether they are actual human beings or mere Sim-like characters dreamt up by pre-pubescent teenagers in their bedrooms remains unclear. Unlike other dating sites or apps, there is no match-making algorithm; users can speak to one another freely without having to consent first.
While helpful, the guise of ambiguity does little to cushion the fact that any prospective couples will be matched on financial compatibility i.
With things like sex drive and turn ons listed on people's profiles, the sites are synonymous with intimacy. Crucially, none of the sugar baby services I encountered facilitate transactions between members - the expectation is that they will be conducted privately.
But even if the websites did advocate such a digitalised brothel-like service, prostitution is not illegal in England and Wales. However niche their matchmaking may be, they promote a service which suggests matches based on compatibility and any fee paid to the website is for that matchmaking service only.
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