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For you as well as me. They are therefore as intimate and personal as asking for sex. Govern yourself accordingly. A house cleaner makes way less per hour than a pro-dom. Not all women are comfortable with you buying them stuff. Also the type of submissive you are is informed by the rest of your personality.
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It needs more digging into. Take for example the popular belief that BDSM relationships involve violence and abuse. This flawed information needs to fade away soon. The truth is, BDSM relationships involve a lot of trust and mutual consent from both partners. They just want to be their dominant or submissive selves without any danger of being judged or abused. There are a lot of people out there who pretend to be Doms when they are in fact just out to abuse someone. Researching how to serve him with the best quality is one way to show commitment to your Dom.
So buckle up your seat belts. If this is your first time venturing in the BDSM world, you have to do your choose your dom wisely. No one should coerce you into entering the submissive lifestyle. The decision is entirely yours so choose your dom well. Put to mind that your safety will be in his hands.
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If you want to enjoy BDSM, you should enter it willingly and through your own choice and yours only. A name holds power.
A Dom gets off knowing that he has someone who looks up to him for guidance. You are his little pet. You are his to care for, his to command, his to punish, and his to reward.
How to please your dom and be a good slave (be the perfect sub!)
Every time you address him properly, you remind him of the hold he has in you. And nothing pleases your Dom more than to hear his submissive give him her full attention and respect. Just as your Dom needs to learn about your limits and turn-ons, you as the sub, need to reciprocate that.
Get to know your dom. Gather as much information as possible. What are his likes and dislikes? Does he prefer you stand by his side with your head bowed down or does he prefer seeing you down on your knees? Does he like the sound of your screams or does he prefer hearing the sound of your whimpers? Even tiny details like how he wants his coffee, what his favorite color is, and what time he leaves for work, can be of value to you as his sub.
If you want to please your Dom, you have to know him well. Without him telling you, you already know that he wants you to turn on the TV, and switch to his favorite channel. Or that you have to wait for him to finish eating before you New sub needs mistress with your food. This level of compatibility with your Dom takes time to develop. Do you get home and immediately go upstairs to strip? Or do you leave your clothes at your front door? Can you sit on his lap while he re you a bedtime story? Or are you only allowed to do it when he gets back? Voice out your questions but do so in a respectful manner.
Some have an allotted time for their BDSM play scenes.
For couples who do it throughout the day, constantly asking for permission on everything that you can do can be hard to keep up with. There are also going to be times when he wants to keep his silence.
You have to be really observant to learn when your Dom is in that mood. But you need to take into consideration that your Master needs his space every now and then. A good master though knows never to leave his sub for too long. Close but quiet.
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Offer him your comforting presence, and patiently wait for his next command. If you want to please you dom, you have to learn how to do this.
Learn to talk the talk. And besides, as a sub, the torture of being denied of something by your Dom is pleasurable in itself. Always show your Dom that you appreciate what he does for you.
Your Master creates the rules and you are to follow every single one of them. Failure to do so in some form of punishment. This is how a Dom disciplines his sub. There are many forms of punishments that your Dom can try. It can also be by tease and denial playwhere the Master teases the sub close to orgasm but never letting her finish. Or maybe it can be is through tickle play where the Master stimulates the ticklish parts of the sub.
Let him hear your sounds of agony—both from pain and pleasure, amplifies the satisfaction your Dom receives. Sometimes a sub acts out just to get attention from her Master. A slight power struggle can make for some great fun spanking but your Dom expects you to be obedient.
Pleasing your Dominant is your main goal as a sub. Keep in mind that you want to give your true submission to your Dom because pleasing him pleases you too. Follow all the tips mentioned here, tweak them to your situation.
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