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Initiating sex is sooo pre- MeToo movement. Inviting someone to have sex is much more hip read: consensual and gender-inclusive.
In theory, this is one of those articles. The implication here being that men are always ready to get it on at the drop of a hat, while women need to be coaxed, cajoled and possibly tricked into being sexually aroused. While that might work for some women, others need much more — time, flirtation, communication, arousal, whatever.
First and foremost: the importance of sexual foreplay. It could be anything from kissing and dry humping, to using outercourse toys to get her warmed up for penetration. Do they need to feel loved in order to have sex?
Do they need to feel sexy? Do they need to feel desired, safe, appreciated, challenged or relaxed?
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Once you know how they need to feel, you can go out of your way to address their emotional needs as much as their physical. Another important thing to keep in mind — in keeping with the notion of core erotic feelings — is that arousal happens differently for different people, and that makes communication all the more important.
Talk about it. Be open to trying new things. If your sex life has been feeling a bit stale lately, sexual roleplay could be exactly what you need to breath some life back into it. If foreplay has typically been a few minute affair for you, it might be time to re-imagine what foreplay can be.
Instead, make foreplay an all-day affair, slowly building up to a climactic moment later on. Sexting during the day can be a great way to build anticipation for a sex session later on.
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While the above suggestions can make for great sexual experiences, not all of them will work for everyone and some might find all four of them ho-hum. Maybe she needs quiet time after work. Search AskMen Search. Messages You have no messages.
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